Join me for the FREE All Things Financial Webinar Wednesday February 1st 7 pm (cst)

More exciting news going on this week and next! I feel like things are a little crazy around here because I’m getting ready for a trip to Aspen and then to Atlanta and I’m trying to prep for several things in between. Yikes! There is never enough time in the day!!

But all that aside, I’ve got something exciting for next week! Next Wednesday (Februrary 1st at 7 pm CST) I am going to be apart of BigMarker.com’s all things financial webinar series. Bigmarker.com is a new free tool I recently discovered, here’s what they are all about:

BigMarker is a free web conferencing community. Through our platform, you can reconnect with your family in Rio; manage your employees in Madagascar; organize your non-profit’s resources to Ottawa; teach a virtual class from Tulsa to students all over Thailand; foster a support group for cancer survivors from France to the Falkland Islands. With unlimited access to live events, there are endless opportunities for you, your community, organization, business, classroom, and social network to grow.

This webinar is going to be a lot of fun, and best of all it’s free!!! My topic is “Why Getting out of Debt is Important for Women in the New Year”. If you want to learn more about it, I recorded a quick cinch audio about it, you can listen to the overview here.

Did I mention this webinar is free?! To sign up, head over to BigMarker.com and register here: http://www.bigmarker.com/allthingsfinancial/thejennypincher. It’s important you get registered so you can make sure your spot is reserved. There are only so many seats and the spots will fill up fast as we approach February 1st. So go get registered and feel free to send me any questions about debt you have ahead of time by contacting me here. I look forward to chatting with you guys next week on the conference :)

Introducing The Man To The Money

This is a guest post from Louise at Money Supermarket. You can read more about Louise at the end of this post.

It’s hard for those of us who have been financially independent to suddenly find ourselves in a relationship where we share both the bank accounts and the bills. I know I’ve worked very hard to achieve financial autonomy and the thought of handing over even a little bit of control to somebody else is just plain scary. However, successful relationships typically involve compromise and sharing. Here are a few tips for introducing the man to the money.

 

Splitting Finances Without Splitting Up

I’ve found that it’s very important to let your significant other know from the very start that your wish to remain financially independent doesn’t indicate that you are expecting the relationship to fail. It just means that your relationship will be on equal terms as you work toward becoming an awesome romantic and financial team.

Keep an Independent Credit Rating

If you’ve been financially independent for as long as I have, you don’t want to run the risk of having your husband’s credit rating negatively affect yours. If your man has a checkered credit past, you must build a financial wall between the two of you to keep his bad spending habits from lowering your score.

Simply explain to him that at least one of you needs to have a great credit history. Tell him that you both need to maintain independent credit ratings until he is able to increase his score. Suggest he gets a secured credit card to start rebuilding his credit.

Even if your man has an excellent credit history, you want to maintain some independent credit ratings just in case your “happily ever after” goes sour. Be sure that you have your own credit cards and an installment loan in your name only. Keep at least some of the utilities in your name as well.

Keep Separate Accounts

Keeping a separate checking and savings account in just your name gives you a greater degree of financial autonomy. Deposit part of your paycheck into your savings every month. Tell your husband that it’s important for the two of you to each have access to your own funds in case of an emergency.

Getting Joint Accounts

Only agree to joint financial liabilities once you are comfortable with the way that your partner manages money. Give your joint financial status a test run by opening a joint checking account to take care of the household bills. Once he’s proven he’s reliable with this, you could then consider bigger things such as a joint  secured loan or even a mortgage.

Schedule a Financial Date

I find it helps to have scheduled dates with my husband just to talk over money matters. We get together once a month to review bills, credit card accounts, bank accounts and investments. We also talk about the monthly budget so that neither one of us will overspend.

Being in a serious romantic relationship doesn’t mean that you have to give up your financial independence. There are a few simple steps you can take to retain some of your financial autonomy. Many modern males like being involved with financially independent women anyway. Not only do you create a cash flow, but he also won’t have to worry about your financial well being if something were to happen to him.

This is a guest post by Louise Tillotson on behalf of MoneySupermarket.com. Louise firmly believes in financial independence and has only just let her husband add his name onto the household bank account, despite being married for a year!

25 Quick Meal Ideas When You are In a Hurry (Or Just Don’t Want to Cook)

Sometimes I’m just in a hurry or not that hungry and I don’t want to take a lot of time trying to make something. For those crazy days, I have my “go to” list of quick items I can make so I avoid ordering a pizza or getting fast food. To make sure I always see this list, I have it taped inside my cabinet door so that way when I open the cabinet and think “I have nothing to eat” I can quickly refer to this list!

Note: Make sure you read the entire article, I’ve included a bonus worksheet & grocery list you can download to create your own list to include your favorite quick meals!

My list is made from things I normally keep on hand. I won’t always have each of these items on hand but I try to rotate things around and make sure I do. I also don’t go out and buy all of these things at once. If I’m running low, I will add a few items each week to my grocery list so I don’t blow my budget.

25 Quick Meal Ideas When You are in a Hurry (or just don’t want to cook!)

1. Peanut butter & jelly
2. Grilled Cheese & tomato soup
3. Cheese quesadilla
4. Lunch meat sandwhich
5. Cheese and crackers
6. Bacon,lettuce & tomato
7. Fried egg sandwich
8. Pancakes
9. Steamburgers (loose fried hamburger)
10. Pasta noodles w/ spaghetti sauce (no meat)
11. Macaroni & cheese
12. Bean burritos with cheese and onions
13. English muffin or bagel mini pizzas
14. Tortilla pizzas (soft shell tortilla topped w/ pizza sauce, cheese & toppings)
15. Canned soup
16. Mixture of rice, black beans & salsa in a soft shell tortilla (add cheese & microwave 45 seconds)
17. Tortilla chips with beans & cheese
18. Popcorn
19. Chicken, ham, turkey or egg salad
20. Sauteed grilled vegetables & rice
21. Chopped chicken or beef w/ bbq sauce on a bun
22. Baked potato w/ broccoli & cheese
23. Buttered noodles
24. Salad greens with vegetables, beans & cheese
25. Baked beans w/ veggie hotdogs
26. Hard boiled egg with toast

Ok so ya there were actually 26 ideas listed! As you can see from the list, there is nothing fancy about these meals. They are simple and can get you buy when you just don’t have the time or energy to cook. Having these types of things on hand can also help you if you are sick or the weather is bad and you don’t want to get out!

If you want to make your own list  to keep at home like I do, I’ve made a quick meal idea guide that you can just click on and download. A new screen will open and you can just save or print the pdf! I’ve even included an extra page with a grocery list for you. This helps me remember what I want to keep on hand and when I’m running low, I won’t forget to buy it the next time I’m at the store.

What are your favorite “go to” meals when you are in a hurry? Leave a comment and let me know!

Ask The Experts Series: The Best Advice on Getting out of Debt – Part 3

Continuing with the Ask The Experts Series, today 5 more bloggers answer the question:

There is a lot of information out there on personal finance as a whole, especially the topic of getting out of debt. What is your best advice on getting out of debt? What tools do you use and recommend to accomplish this?

In case you missed it, don’t forget to go back and read Part 1 and Part 2 of the series! And now on to today’s responses:

Name: Robbie Edwards
Website: One Price Taxes
Twitter: @OnePriceTaxes

Money is one of the most sensitive areas of our lives.  Personal finance, spending, and debt are all big contributing factors in relationships and often causes relationships to be torn apart.  Recently I met a single woman who gave me the most interesting requirement I’ve ever heard for a future spouse.  It wasn’t a height requirement, a weight requirement, or a hair requirement.  She told me that any man who wanted to marry her would have to have a good credit score!  I was caught by surprise by her requirement but she then explained to me that amount of effort she had put into getting out of debt herself and raising her credit score that she didn’t want to dragged down into that hole again.
The best advice I can give on getting out of debt is to start by creating a plan and then train yourself to have the discipline and the patience to stick with that plan.  Everyone wants a 5 minute (or less) way to be debt free but the truth its going to take longer to get out of debt than it did to get into it.  Here are some things my wife and I have done to pay down our debts:
1)  Take a hard look at your monthly budget.  Try and decide what monthly bills are needs (car, house, electricity) and what monthly bills are luxuries (Starbucks, eating out, etc).
2)  Find someone to hold you accountable.  No woman is an island unto herself.  Ask someone you trust to hold you accountable in the area of your budget.  Use this person as someone to bounce ideas off of as far as what you can and can’t afford.
3)  Cut up credit cards that hold the most temptation.  Using scissors is a skill most of us learn in kindergarden and it may be the most useful skill we have when it comes to getting rid of temptation.  For me, that would be the now deceased Best Buy credit card.  For my wife, it was the Target credit card.  Getting rid of these temptations will make it easier for you to get the credit card balances down.  Ask your accountability partner for help with this.
4)  Build momentum by paying off the smallest balances.  Never underestimate the power of momentum.  Getting early victories in the war against debt is VERY satisfying and will ultimately help you win this battle.

As for tools, I’d recommend Payoff.com as a good place to start in helping yourself get out of debt.  Payoff.com not only helps you get out of debt but it also rewards you with prizes for getting out debt.


Name: Jessica Streit 
Website: The Debt Princess
Twitter: @Debt_Princess

When I found myself at my lowest point in life, it was not due to an illness or the break up in my relationship, it was not due to something out of my control. Rather, the lowest point in my life was completely within my doing. I had accumulated so much debt that I could no longer pay even the minimum payments on them.

The tool that has helped me turn my life around has been in receiving an education. I have taken the time to learn as much as I possibly can about finances. I have read countless books, websites and articles about personal finance. I have taken the time to learn about myself and why I was able to get myself into a position of great debt not once, but twice in my lifetime. I have spent a great deal of time learning.

My financial education came later than I would have liked. It was not something I learned until my mid 30s. That is, in my opinion a great travesty. Our society does not typically discuss financial matters. I believe that is a great problem that should be addressed. Educating our children, our young adults and ourselves on all things money related is vital to our success. Financial literacy is something that should be taught to every child before they have left high school. Financial literacy is the greatest gift we can give a young adult before they venture out on their own into the real world.

Name: David Bakke 
Website: Money Crashers
Twitter: @MoneyCrashers

When it comes to the topic of getting out of debt, the Internet is packed with information and tools. Weaving your way through it all can be challenging and time-consuming. However, the best way to solve your personal debt issues is to take advantage of a few personal strategies while also taking advantage of some online tools and technology:

1. Fully Focus On Getting Out of Debt: Several years back, I knew that my finances were in trouble, I just didn’t know how bad. Before I finally woke up and decided to do something about it, I found myself more than $30,000 in debt. The best way to start is to fully commit and focus on getting out of debt. To do so, you need to learn exactly how to make a budget that you can stick with and follow over the long term. It literally should be something that you should think about every day, until you have some solid spending and pay-down strategies in place.

2. Slash Personal Spending: There are two things you need to do to get out of debt as fast as possible. First, cut spending. You should look at every purchase that you make on a daily basis and find a way to eliminate it or reduce it. If you buy a cup of coffee every morning at the convenience store, either quit, or buy yourself a coffee maker and make it from home. If you eat out for lunch every day, consider switching to brown bag lunches. Analyze any and all other purchases to find ways to save. You should also slash your entertainment budget. After all, if you want to get out of debt, it will involve some sacrifices in the short term. Also, note that I did not say that you need toeliminate entertainment. You still want to enjoy life, just on a smaller scale until you’re debt-free. If you’re willing to go far enough, consider making the sacrifice to cancel your cable TV to save money on your monthly bills significantly.

3. Generate Income: The next way to acquire the money you’ll need to become free of debt is income generation. Before we discuss grander topics like starting your own business, try asking for a raise or volunteering for overtime at work. You can also consider talking on a part time job. Another idea is to sell your unused items on the Internet or taking on one of many other awesome side business ideas. If you take this route and find it successful, it can easily develop into small business ownership. There is nothing like creating extra income to help complement your efforts to cut back on spending.

4. Take Advantage of Rewards: From discounts to rewards, there are numerous everyday strategies you can be implementing to save a significant amount on your purchases. For example, many of the best cash back credit cards offer an impressive 5% cash back on all of your purchases. Or if you’re a AAA member, don’t overlook many of the best AAA membership discounts that you should be taking advantage of.

5. Mint: The Mint.com personal finance application is the pioneer in online budgeting tools, and I still think their tool is one of the best. They offer budget creation help, goal-setting opportunities and ways to save money. Best of all, Mint is free. Another neat tool is Credit Sesame, which gives you all the tools you need to take control of your finances. They offer a loan search option to find the best rates for you until you can pay off all debt. They also offer credit monitoring services, and the service is free as well!


Name: Jimmy
Website: Deals Planet
Twitter: @DealsPlanet

The best advice to getting out of debt is never to get into debt. However, there are times when it is unavoidable to end up in debt. There are two possible courses of action: Increasing income and/or decrease expenses.

While each individual situation is different, there are multiple ways to increase income. Start by analyzing your current work situation. Should you consider looking for another job that pays more or should you find a second job to sumplement your current income? Are you taking advantage of advancment opportunities at your current job. Are you utilizing education and training offered by your currrent employer?

Many employers will reimburse employees for taking courses at an accredited college and university that correspond to their current job requirements. Check with your HR department if they offer such program / benefit. While this education may not immediately pay off in a promotion or a salary increase, it will help termendously down the road when you might be considered for a promotion or when you are looking for another job.

The second course for attacking debt is to decrease expenses. Start by looking at the major household expenses home and auto. Regardless if you rent or own you can look for ways to save on your housing expenses. Consider negotiating a lower rent if possibe or look around to see if you a comparable place with cheaper rent. Currently, the interest rate is at its historic low levels therefore you should look into refinancing your home to see if you can save money on mortgage.
Beside the obvious main expenses (home and auto) discretionary expenses could be reduced or even illiminated to reduce expenses. Here are few suggestions:

  • Look into reducing your cable, internet, and phone bill
  • Cut down on dining out
  • Consider shopping at discount stores. They offer the same brands at lower prices.
  • Don’t buy the latest “flashy” electronics or mobile phones. Most electronics will go down in price within 6 month-1year.
  • Pack your own lunch for work. It is usually cheaper and healthier than fast food.
  • Check with your employer if it is possible to work from home. Working from home would reduce your commute expenses.
  • Check your local newspaper for free social events. You don’t have to stop having fun just because you are cutting down on expenses.
  • Buy clothes on sale. Usually clothes go on sale toward the end of the season.

The credit card yearly summary is a great budgeting tool. It lets you see where you spent money by category; merchendise, entertainment, and auto / gas expenses. You would be surprised how those small monthly fees add up to a big year expense. There expenses that you may not be able to reduce or eliminate. However many other discretionary expense could be reduced or even eliminated.


Name: Andrea
Website: Nickel by Nickel
Twitter: @NickelbyNickel

My best advice for getting out of debt doesn’t have so much to do with the actual making-payments-on-your-debt side of things but more with the process of getting to a place where you can begin getting out of debt. I think that once you hit your breaking point and you realize that you have to do something, anything, to get out of the hole the most important part is getting informed:

How much is everything costing me? What do I actually earn? What can I really afford? I had a general idea about my bills and income before I realized I wanted to get out of debt, I had a general outline of expenses throughout the year and I sort-of planned towards them… but really when it came down to it I had no idea how much I actually spent after the fact on various items like clothing, food, fun-money. It’s like buying a train-ticket without knowing your destination, you’re going somewhere..but where? I had no idea if what I was planning was actually working and looking back I realize that what I was doing wasn’t working at all.

I started using a budgeting program (YNAB) at first just to see the cool charts at the end of the month but it really has become a valuable tool to measure how well I’m actually doing in achieving my goals. See, people are good at setting goals… but you need to reach and re-evaluate goals too and doing that can propel you do do even better the next time around.

Stay tuned to tomorrows post in the Ask The Experts Series Part 4 where we talk about Building Wealth.